As a kid from one of these households – we are being controlled to. The abuse doesn’t stop with you. We feel the tension, we hate it. Stop staying with these people because you don’t want to break up a family. Girl horse riding vintage shirt I have two younger sisters who are both just as mixed up as me thanks to seeing such a messed up relationship for so long and living constantly on eggshells. You realise it causes anxiety living like that? Get out with your children and do not go back. It screws us up.
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My boys were 6 and 8 when I left their dad. I felt so much guilt for breaking up the family but it had to be done because it wasn’t a healthy place for me or for them to grow up in. Being a single mum is hard Work but you will do it. My boys a few years later said they were happier once I had left their dad because “there was no more shouting”. Girl horse riding vintage shirt Since leaving him in 2010 I have pulled myself up with the support of an amazing family and some brilliant friends, I have completed my degree and nearly finished my masters degree, so I made it my focus to be the best role model for my boys that I could possibly be. Those early days are really scary but you have a future now
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No one deserves to b abused. Physical scars go away emotional scars last a life time! I am 66 yrs old and starting over. Just take it a day at a time. Lived that life for almost 20 years and he almost killed me. He gave me a traumatic brain injury and I have permanent hearing loss in my left ear. It doesn’t get better EVER. Get out!!! I am so sorry you had to endure the pain for so long. It is hard for others to understand what holds us in those situations, the overwhelming fear, pain and emotional turmoil/scars can cripple and stifle. Please be sure to take time for yourself to heal, personal development, therapy, etc… find what works for you. It is very hard to climb up out of the mess and feel whole. So sorry for the physical trauma, so glad you survived it and hope you will continue to speak out and bring awareness to help others who are going through this pain.
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