I totally agree with you. By forgiving I feel the other person easily get away from the harm that person has done but what about all the pain that the other person went through? A day without a redhead is like a day without sunshine shirt It’s not fair at all. Don’t confuse forgiveness with forgetting. If we kill someone and come to Christ and confess the sin HE is faithful and just to forgive us however, we are still living in this world and we still have to assume responsibility of our own actions.
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This is exactly what im dealing with. I have forgiven my father for the most hurtful thing that I never imaged would happen. My father shot and killed my brother and shot his female friend she survived. He has never admitted to his wrong but has always put the blame on my brother I can’t forgive a person who did something unthinkable but I’ve learned that I don’t have to forgive them and give them the free pass…. I had to learn to forgive me. A day without a redhead is like a day without sunshine shirt That it wasn’t my fault, I couldn’t control it or stop it and that I’ve moved on from it. It doesn’t define or hold me. I’m free of it. They can carry the burden and the shame and the hurt but I’m free of it. So I will never give them my forgiveness, ever…. they don’t deserve it.
I have the same problem, I struggle to let go, it doesn’t matter what I do or how many videos like this I watch. Even from experiences that’s happened 20 years ago I can’t let go or simply forgive, if anything I naturally feel like I wish harm to any individual that’s wronged me. I’m aware I can’t change what’s happened and letting go is the answer not sure if I’m even capable of forgiveness… Forgiveness sets you free, it doesn’t make what the other person did acceptable by any means – it just means it’s not renting space in your head anymore because it’s not worth it. Nothing is worth stealing your inner peace or happiness..How would you feel if the person that wronged you doesn’t even think about you,but you dwell on what they did to you? Who is winning then? I choose to win and forgive, but it is definitely not OK what they did to me but I don’t even give them a second thought or a first!
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